Dr. K's Blog
The Subtle Child
18 November 2011
Let me describe a child to you. She struggles with school. Reading is slow and laborious. If mom or dad reads to her, her comprehension is a lot better than if she reads on her own. Homework takes a long time to complete. The biggest concerns are that she is starting to lose self-esteem and just doesn’t seem to be reaching potential.
She has had a psycho-educational evaluation at school and although some issues were found, they were subtle and didn’t warrant intervention. She also had an OT evaluation at school. Again, there were some concerns but, not enough to qualify for OT. Mom and dad have been told, “maybe your child is just simply a “C” student”.
A friend of her parents suggested she come to see me. After my evaluation it’s my turn to tell mom and dad the same thing everyone else has told them. The numbers don’t look so bad. But unlike the other professionals, despite the numbers, I definitely think that she should have Vision Therapy. I see the confusion in mom and dad’s eyes. “If it’s subtle, doesn’t it mean that it’s not much of a problem?” My answer is “No. In terms of vision, subtle does not equal a small problem.” Here’s why…
The subtle child is a child who hasn’t adapted to their inefficiencies. If the visual system is not efficient it interferes. So, a “small problem” is a problem that hasn’t been solved and interferes. Imagine driving your car and you suddenly get a flat tire. You pull over to the side of the road. Maybe you can simply put some air into the tire and quickly drive to a service station. Maybe you can put a spare tire on and then get to the service station. Maybe you need a tow. Any one of these choices will work to solve the problem. They’re not necessarily efficient adaptations, but they’ll do the trick. On the other hand, imagine instead of pulling over, you just keep driving on that flat tire. You’d have to drive slowly, you’d have to be real careful because it’s not safe, and it would be a bit uncomfortable to be thumping along down the road. In fact, continuing to drive seems pretty silly doesn’t it? It makes a lot more sense to fix the problem. Yet that’s the subtle child. Slowly, thumping along down the road, not able to adapt to the problem, but able to get to the destination. She has four tires, one of them is flat, but three out of four is good enough. Right? Not in my book.
The subtle child needs help just as much, if not more, as the obvious child. If we’re not careful the subtle child will perpetually fall between the cracks, not getting any help because they are not the squeaky wheel and at the same time never reaching their full potential. If you have a subtle child, don’t leave any stones unturned in trying to find professionals who “get it” and are willing to work with you. It’s that important.
